It was a flop. She told me at the start that it's not a date and we're just friends. It's wierd that she tells me to stop flirting with her, but then she complains that she misses the times i used to flirt with her...
I hope you've cut this person out of your life - they don't sound good for you in the slightest.
I'm not a 'youngster' and have done dating the old fashioned and scary way.
1, Go out of your way to meet new people.
2, Make new friends.
3, Invest in the friendships
4, turn a friendship into a relationship
As a fully paid up member of the grown-up club I'd say these these things.
a) You are a grown-up. If you don't want to speak to someone you don't have to.
b) It is better to have fewer friends than keep toxic friendships.
c) Don't mess with people's emotions, you'd not want yours messed with.
d) To Thine Own Self Be True.
