JennyJack77 said:
stellajose said:
Go!
I know it's a crazy attitude to have but my parents are only 55 and for the last 15 years my mum has had MS. They obviously had us kids young and couldn't afford to travel much while we were young. My dad so wanted to. Now mum has MS she won't fly, because she's embarrassed about being in a wheelchair. Even though I lived in Spain, had a baby there, nothing would make her fly... my sister and I both married abroad. No parents there. My dad's now taken early retirement.
I'm going to travel while I have the inclination to do so. Yeah, I don't really have the money... it'd be better paid off the mortgage. But what happens in 25 years when I have all the money and no memories, and no inclination to do what I always put off doing because of money.
Plus, the holiday is what keeps me motivated to work. When I have something to save for - I earn £750-£1200, when I don't, it's nearer £300. So the holiday is effectively free ;D
I love your attitude. My mum was diagnosed with lung cancer in June 2013 and died 3 months later. She was 59 and up until even July 2013 was outwardly as fit as a fiddle (avid walker, covering 10 miles a day etc). Life can indeed be short, so you need to embrace it. (She said, chained to her desk.)
Well yeah, I too am spending today sat at home earning (a rather paltry amount) online instead of taking my kids to the beach and spending it on ice cream...
But I just picture my dad's face when I was young, all excited that at some point in the future he'd see Paris, New York, Egypt, wherever. And now he can't. And my DH, he's 48 and he's not as eager as me to travel the world. I worry that it runs out... haha.
I took my kids to Hawaii in December 2012. My youngest was only 10 months old. 21 hour flights each way. It was to attend my sister's wedding though but I'm so glad we were there.
I'm so sorry about your mum. That's horrible. My friend is going through the same - her dad has been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer which has spread to the lymph nodes and elsewhere. Utterly shocking and heartbreaking.